Never use people as intermediaries to throw digs at someone. It is cruel and sadistic. Be real. Shout and speak your mind if you need to vent out but do not play mind games and mind fuck people. The damage is huge for many as minds are hard to fix the heusteris is too much! You would be respected if you are real and calls spade a spade even if you are not right to do so than play mind fucking games discreetly! People are relevant to someone or the other maybe not to you or me?