Teach your kids to cook, its a life skill, teach them to stand for themselves, to survive even if everything else fails around them, to be support to the weak, to be independent and resolute for others. To say NO when they have to, to trust right people with learned cultivated instincts
Your children are what you nurture them to be, if you don’t, something else will and it will be too late. They should not collapse without you, but live the gift of life you gave them, they should not be vulnerable and be exploited. Life is a gift, children are treasures, nurture them to amazing amazing human beings who cost this world but same time contributes enough.